Where the Strain Shows Up
Relationships & Attachment
You want closeness, but fear needing too much.
You swallow your no’s because conflict feels unsafe.
You crave connection but sometimes feel a wall between you
and the people you love.
Burnout & Nervous System
You’re exhausted but can’t shut your mind off.
You rest, but guilt tells you you’re falling behind.
You’re always “on,” bracing for what’s next.
Money, Worth & Identity
Your value feels tied to what you make or do.
No matter how much you achieve, it’s never enough.
Even with “enough” in the bank, money feels scarce.
Self-Trust & Intuition
You second-guess yourself long after decisions are made.
You’ve been chasing expectations so long you can’t hear your own voice.
Confidence feels like something other people have.
Leadership & Purpose
You carry responsibility for everyone—and it feels heavy.
You want to lead with calm, but urgency always takes over.
Work feels like an obligation, not meaning.
Inner Child & Emotions
Old wounds keep resurfacing.
Certain emotions feel unsafe to touch.
The joy, creativity, and play you used to feel feel out of reach.
Where the Strain
Shows Up
Relationships & Attachment
You want closeness, but fear needing too much.
You swallow your no’s because conflict feels unsafe.
You crave connection but sometimes feel a wall between you
and the people you love.
Burnout & Nervous System
You’re exhausted but can’t shut your mind off.
You rest, but guilt tells you you’re falling behind.
You’re always “on,” bracing for what’s next.
Money, Worth & Identity
Your value feels tied to what you make or do.
No matter how much you achieve, it’s never enough.
Even with “enough” in the bank, money feels scarce.
Self-Trust & Intuition
You second-guess yourself long after decisions are made.
You’ve been chasing expectations so long you can’t hear your own voice.
Confidence feels like something other people have.
Leadership & Purpose
You carry responsibility for everyone—and it feels heavy.
You want to lead with calm, but urgency always takes over.
Work feels like an obligation, not meaning.
Inner Child & Emotions
Old wounds keep resurfacing.
Certain emotions feel unsafe to touch.
The joy, creativity, and play you used to feel feel out of reach.