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Ep 28: How Calling Off a Marriage Led Me to Radical Responsibility and Unshakable Self-Worth

Season #1

There’s a part of you still waiting —
to be seen, to be chosen, to finally be safe enough to rest.

In today’s episode, I’m sharing one of the most personal stories of my life — a journey through coming out, calling off a marriage, surviving toxic cycles, and finally choosing myself from the inside out.

This isn’t just a story about pain — it’s a story about reclamation.
It’s about rooting into leadership that rises from embodied self-trust, not survival.

If you’ve ever found yourself waiting for validation, outsourcing your worth, or wondering if healing only comes when someone else changes — this conversation is for you.

We’ll walk through:

  • How to recognize when you're outsourcing your safety or leadership

  • How survival patterns shape your nervous system

  • Why nervous system regulation and community are non-negotiable

  • The three stages of real transformation: Awareness, Awakening, and Reclamation

  • How to root deeper into self-trust — without burning your life down

You were never meant to perform your healing.
You were meant to embody your wholeness.

Your life doesn’t begin when someone else chooses you.
It begins when you choose yourself.

Reflection Questions to Journal:

  1. Where in my life am I still waiting to be saved, chosen, or validated?

  2. Where might I be outsourcing my leadership, intuition, or sense of worth?

  3. How does my nervous system currently feel? (Calm, overwhelmed, frozen?)

  4. What would radical responsibility look like for me today — in small, tangible ways?

 

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Episode Trigger Warning:
This episode briefly discusses emotional abuse and toxic relationships in a healing and empowering context.
Please care for your heart as you listen.